How to Navigate Grief

How do we go about helping our children navigate loss? Whether it is holidays, family traditions, devastating events such as natural disasters many of our children are experiencing loss.  

This month's caregiver tip discusses the challenging topic of grief. It is our hope to provide free resources for difficult topics, giving words for caregivers and children to help open lines of communication. How can we openly discuss how we miss our relatives and our homes? Joycabulary acknowledges these challenges and empowers adults to help their children heal.

 Here are a few possible steps to start exploring this tough topic:

  1. Provide kid-friendly definitions for various feelings including grief. Grief is defined as great sadness. Ironically the antonym provided is joy.

  2. Put feelings into words, see: Lesson Plan: A Little Scribble Spot.

  3. Research accredited websites that discuss the topic of grief.

  4. Read interactive read alouds on loss to build a safe community around your child during this difficult time. 

  5. Discuss the book to provide the words so your child can express his/her feelings and concerns.

Where Do Our Heroes Go? by Megan Hildebrand 

 
 

The caregiver book suggestion this month is Where Do Our Heroes Go? by Hudson Valley, NY author Megan Hildebrand. Her book addresses the questions children have around death and loss. 

We hope parents and caregivers can use this book as a tool to start hard conversations, allowing children to lead and explore their feelings.

Other possible books about grief and loss: 

Pet Loss

 
 
Amanda

Amanda Kovac has twelve years of experience working as a classroom teacher. Formerly an Elementary Literacy Coach for Saugerties Central School District, she now serves as an intermediate Reading Specialist in the Onteora district. Her coaching and teaching philosophy is three dimensional; dream and set goals, dedicate time and enthusiasm towards those goals, and deliver to all. A leader in curriculum reform, research based instructional practices, and increasing student achievement levels, she is committed to creating equitable and joyful literacy experiences. She passionately provides educators, families, and students memorable opportunities towards lifelong reading and writing. Amanda lives in Saugerties, NY with her three young children. All three are learning words at a rapid rate! JOYcabulary was sparked by an experience her four-year-old daughter had with the multiple meanings of the word duck.

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